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Good Questions Good Answers 1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements 2. What are your life goals? Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you 3. How to reach your goals? Use your conscious and unconscious resources 4. What stops you? Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation 5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence 6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills 7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentor ship 8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) 9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems 10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together 11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities 12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training

• be alone with yourself often. Spend some quality time having deep thoughts in order to identify with yourself, who you are, what you desire and more importantly what makes you happy. You may be the person that needs to be happy again especially if you are dealing with a mid-life crisis. • Take the control back. Influence yourself instead of allowing others to influence you. After all, how can you identify with yourself when you are allowing others to create your identity for you by putting their advice above your own. Your desires should be the most important of all. • Think about the things you enjoy doing and then do them. I can not think of a better way to find your identity or avoid a mid-life crisis than by being you and doing the things that you love most. Solutions for Identity Issues Few people are trained by their parents on how to show or express emotions. Later in life, our competitive societies often insist that people ignore or deny their emotions. Many peo

If you are wanting to learn more about you, and find answers to the many questions that you have within you, here you will receive the answers and guidance to help you along on your own dream quest. Whether it be through dream interpretation, Shamanic Touch Healing, LaHo Chi Healing or through the intuitive reading session with Sky, here you will find what your are looking for. Skyhawk is a certified instructor for Shamanic Touch Healing as well as a intuitive and a Reiki Master/Teacher. Also, Sky has been making jewelry and other crafts, such as medicine bags, smudging fans and much more for many years. To have a look at the merchandise go to the jewelry and crafts page. So, start on your dream quest, and find yourself. Comprehensive Development Master Plan. (a) The Board of County Commissioners of Metropolitan Miami-Dade County, Florida, hereby adopts and enacts as Part I of the Comprehensive Development Master Plan the following capitalized section headings cont

5 Ways to Find Your True Identity How Confidence and Self-Improvement Makes Your Life Good Self-improvement involves finding your true identity and authentic self. These five ways to find yourself will strengthen your confidence and make your life good! Finding your true identity and authentic self can be tricky because our culture – any culture – rewards conformity, normal behavior, and blending in with the crowd. Here are five ways to find yourself - your true identity. Self-improvement makes your life good, and more enjoyable! Women are especially encouraged to be quiet and don't make waves. As a result, we can lose ourselves - and your self is a terrible thing to lose. Here's how to find your true identity, honor self development and strengthen your self esteem. Finding your true identity and being yourself is the greatest gift you can give to your family, friends, and the world. Finding Your True Identity and Authentic Self These 5 ways to find yourself will i

Taken from a PBS series this is the first of three tapes to come from that effort. It is simple the best compilation of thought provking and stimulating ideas on tape that I have found. I am a counselor who works with adolescents and I am always looking for some way to inspire, motivate, or encourage young adults to begin the process of self knowledge and self awarness and to see beyond themselves into the world they are about to enter as adults. So many tapes are too simplistic or too complicated but this series seem to intrigue these individuals as no other tape I have used has been able to do. It is a series that anyone from early adolescents to geriatrics will find extremely valuable and thought provoking. No schmoltzy solutions, no formulaic set answers to life--just wonderful stimulating ways to encouarage the listener to examine who they are, what they feel and where they want to go. You will listen to this series over and over and will hear something new each and every time.

Discover Your True Self Discovering your true self is a crucial stage in your personal development Just think of this: how well do you know your true self? And what is it exactly that you know? How many personal facts or character features do you know? What do you think of your true self? Is this the ultimate pride you’re feeling, or maybe shame or even fear? Your self-growth and the success of personal development efforts are entirely dependent on how well you know yourself and how you feel about your personality. I hope you will forgive me for starting my entry with questions yet again. It seems to me that I quite enjoy starting some of my personal development articles this way. Probably, because no matter how much further I progress in my self-growth, I always get to some next level of self-understanding only to ask the next round of questions. It seems impossible for me to reach a point where I’m going to run out of all the questions and just sit there not knowing what should

AThe butterfly slumbers in its cocoon. An uninspiring shape seemingly trapped within its own environment. But its nature is to be free... and when the right time comes its shackles are removed and it rises in its glorious colors to achieve its purpose in the wheel of life. Many times we might wonder what we are called upon to do. What our Mission in life requires of us. Such thoughts reflect the pain and glory that cloaks humanity. The pain of struggling with such existential questions and the glory of being aware that we are not just a whiff of shapeless smoke that dissolves itself into nonexistence. We have the ability to make a difference and impact in life- and if we realize our full potential we can live peak moments of meaningful fulfillment. However the journey to self-realization and mastery is not an easy one. It is troubled by the waves of constant demands that life imposes upon us as we strive to carry out our individual responsibilities. Daily struggles with routine t

Integrity Quotes Integrity Definition 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 - 6 - 7 - 8 - 9 - 10 A building has integrity just like a man. And just as seldom. Ayn Rand A life lived with integrity - even if it lacks the trappings of fame and fortune is a shinning star in whose light others may follow in the years to come. Denis Waitley A mode of conduct, a standard of courage, discipline, fortitude and integrity can do a great deal to make a woman beautiful. Jacqueline Bisset A single lie destroys a whole reputation of integrity. Baltasar Gracian A task becomes a duty from the moment you suspect it to be an essential part of that integrity which alone entitles a man to assume responsibility. Dag Hammarskjold A thing is right when it tends to preserve the integrity, stability and beauty of the biotic community. It is wrong when it tends otherwise. Aldo Leopold Achievement of your happiness is the only moral purpose of your life, and that happiness, not pain or mindless self-indulgenc

Making your Romantic Dreams come True Are you having the romantic life you have always wanted... in your imagination? Welcome to the club that has many members who feel and live exactly the way you do! Romance is always simple and carefree when it is being acted out in our imaginations. How's Your Self-Awareness? This issue was designed to help you to develop greater self-awareness. This critical knowledge will tell you who you really are and help you to accept and love your true self. Without this, you cannot set the goals that will bring about the life changes what are you Passionate About? Hopefully this issue will help you to jump-start your new season resolve to pursue your goals and dreams. As you settle into your fall routines; try to make time to identify your passions and grow them into a life that has true meaning, purpose How to re-discover yourself Have you reached a point in your life where you now look at yourself, yet do not recognize who you are? Do you fee

How to discover yourself In the middle of the journey of our life I came to myself within a dark wood where the straight way was lost. Discover Who You Are... Are you wondering how to discover yourself? Searching for a way to discover who you really are? Curious about what makes you unique and how to become the person you were meant to be? People travel across the globe in search of themselves ... always with the same question on their minds... How do I discover myself? The answer may surprise you ... and it is not that difficult of a task. Seven Sirius Steps Seven steps help you find your way and discover yourself. I use them to help guide those who have lost their way or forgotten who they really are. If you have never have found an answer before, these seven steps may help. Every step helps you discover something important and meaningful about who you are, what makes makes life magical and meaningful, and why you are here. Step 0. Start Journey of Self Discovery T

Finding yourself is an enlightening experience. You become self-sufficient and do things for others without expectations of something in return. You are no longer needy and become utterly grateful for all the things people have done for you in the past. Finding yourself is a time of harmony because you develop that philosophy or belief system that will carry you throughout the rest of your life. When you love yourself and who you are, you will savor and enjoy both life's pain and pleasures. How do you know you have found yourself? When you are able to help others find themselves. Finding yourself is not easy. If you have never felt connected to whom you are, and you want to find whatever makes you, being yourself will be hard. The first step is always the hardest, but after that hill, you will be smooth sailing to discovering who you are. Steps • Create your life timeline"'. Write down all of the major events in your life that you feel have affected you and have made y

Integrity is not something we are born with, nor can we go out to buy it. It does not come in a box with a pretty little bow. It would be nice if it were so easy, but it’s not. Integrity is something you have to grow from within. For me personally, it wasn’t until I got older and had lived life for a while that all the pieces came together. First, I learned the value of my word and honesty. And then from experience I slowly began building my moral compass. I developed a sense of what’s right and wrong. I began to figure out what my ethics and morals are. Only once I realized I had these values, I really began to live them and use them as my moral compass.

Integrity has been defined as “Moral soundness; honesty; freedom from corrupting influence or motive” by a good friend of mine and college graduate. The dictionary describes it as “Unimpaired, unadulterated, or genuine state; entire correspondence with an original condition; purity.” I enjoy Peter’s definition more then the official definition, however, the “genuine state” part of the dictionary definition is also really good. The moral standards of most societies, according to Mr. Lewis, coincide to a remarkable degree. By ignoring our consciences, dispensing with guilt, and ignoring honor, we are blissfully indifferent to the societal decay that has crept around us. In a spirit of false enlightenment we have looked the other way as families, friendships, and even lives have been sacrificed on the altar of self-interest and doing what "feels good." Instead of affirming these people for achieving self-actualization, we ought to shake our heads and wonder what could cause so

So, what is integrity? Really, it’s about behaving in a way that you are proud of. It means that your morals are intact & that you don’t bend them on a whim.

I never had a policy; I have just tried to do my very best each and every day.  ~Abraham Lincoln I hate mankind, for I think myself one of the best of them, and I know how bad I am.  ~Joseph Baretti, quoted by James Boswell, 1766, commonly misattributed to Samuel Johnson Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.  ~William Shakespeare Transcend political correctness and strive for human righteousness.  ~Anthony J. D'Angelo, The College Blue Book Wisdom is knowing what to do next; virtue is doing it.  ~David Star Jordan, The Philosophy of Despair Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking.  There are too many people who think that the only thing that's right is to get by, and the only thing that's wrong is to get caught.  ~J.C. Watts If you have integrity , nothing else matters.  If you don't have integrity , nothing else matters.  ~Alan Simpson Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes